I went to what was to be a final visit to HFI this morning before they officially released me to my OB for the remaining part of my pregnancy...however, it turns out that today won't be the last day after all. Unfortunately, two doctors searched for the heartbeat and were unable to locate it. Sometime between last Monday when I went in and heard a strong heartbeat to today, it just stopped beating. There are many reasons why this could have happened but there is little anyone knows about miscarriages in all honesty.
After calling my husband, we met at home and made an appt. with my OB to "verify" that there was no heartbeat. We just returned home. Three doctors can't be wrong right? Sometime in the middle of last week (according to the size of the fetus) the baby stopped developing. Tomorrow morning at 5:30am, Rob will take me to the hospital for surgery, where they will remove the fetus and send him off for testing. We hope they will discover through this D and C, the cause of this so we can decide if we will try again in December. Luckily we have several embryos frozen at HFI, and they will be able to transfer them in a matter of months.
We are in need of prayers. Prayers for understanding and acceptance. We know that for whatever reason, God didn't feel this was the right one for us. If it was indeed unhealthy, he didn't want us to bear such a burden and will give us another chance...
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My heart goes out for you and Rob. If you need anything we are there for ya'll! Keep strong in your faith!
Love you,
Tammy
We're sending LOADS of prayers your way guys. I know first hand this is not easy and my heart goes out to the both of you. I love you both and will keep praying for you.
Love you,
Missy
Lots of prayers from all of us. Keep your faith to help you stay strong. We love both of you and will continue to pray for you through this time and beyond.
Love yall,
Michelle, Austin, Dalton
You know where your Mom's and Dad's hearts are...with you both...
always.
My heart is heavy for the both of you. I'm lifting prayers and know that God will take care of you in this difficult time. My Love to both of you!
You are surely in my prayers. One thing i know is that the Good Lord is in Control. Just like you said He knows why he allowed this to happen. Psalm 34:19 says "Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the LORD delivers him out of them all." He up the faith.
You are surely in my prayers. One thing i know is that the Good Lord is in Control. Just like you said He knows why he allowed this to happen. Psalm 34:19 says "Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the LORD delivers him out of them all." Keep up the faith.
this is tite fosho coach (well not the misscarige part of course.) my heart goes out to u!
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